I went back and read my posts "a friend in need...what can I do?" and I realized that I made it sound like her mom was on death's door. I thought she was, in fact I think a lot of people thought that. Once her mom was awake and coherent again I asked my friend if she thought her mom might have been no awake for a few days because she had too much morphine in her. My friend's reply was, "yes." Scary thought to think that someone is in a coma-like state and it turns out to be because of medication. Anyway I do not know the intricate details but I feel like I should apologize <?> for writing that maybe her mom wouldn't make it.
And as for what I can do to help my friend in need. The opportunity has presented itself. My friend needs some help with people checking in with her dad while she has to be away. A few of us have offered to each take a few nights to go and visit with him at home. It feels good to be able to help so she can do this.