I made nice with the person I was mostly talking about in my previous posts. Why? I have no idea really. There were even several things she said as I was apologizing that made me roll my eyes and wonder. But I am going to try, again, one more time to be the better person and put the ridiculous past behind us and move forward to see if we can be friends. Honestly I think I did it for the good of the group. Ya know "took one for the team."

I do want to say that this person has a lot of wonderful qualities. I am not saying she is a bad person. All I am saying is that it is a challenge for me to relate to her,her need to hold onto the past, and her intensive sensitivity.  But that is my problem not her's.  No one should change for anyone else. She should not change for me.  I just need to see if we can gel as friends on a real level.

I need to be able to say to myself I did the best I could and gave it a fair chance. Only time will tell.