you cannot make the wrong choice if you follow your heart.
there are no wrong choices. there are no mistakes. there is only your path.
and you know the way.
you are exactly where you need to be. you have "accomplished" the perfect amount.
my suggestion is to get to your mat more often,and to meditate.
then the answers will be clear.
your mind/ego will confuse you if you don't take the time to practice (yoga/meditation).
but of course you knew i'd say this!! :)
thank you for the wonderful compliment about my mothering....
and remember, sometimes it is the most NON selfish thing a woman can do to NOT have children.
look around you to see those who should never have had children and you'll see what i mean (w/o judgement).
* taken from an email my yoga instructor sent to me. she has this wonderful ability to maintain this incredible perspective and share it with others in a non-judgemental, comforting way